Letting Go,Giving Up

We all know that letting go is not an easy task to do. You have to have all the courage and strength to let go of the person. Some people do not know the big difference between letting go and giving-up .For us(my friends and I),letting go is like giving your love one "freedom" from you because you want your love one to be happy with someone else or with someone that he/she loves .In the other hand,giving-up is when everything seems not to go your way so you give-up.

For us teenagers,we often mistaken infatuation as love. Well,love is patient, love is kind. It does not envy, it does not boast,it is not proud. It is not rude, it is not self-seeking. It is not easily angered, it keeps no record of wrongs. Love does not delight in evil,but rejoices with the truth. It always protects, always trusts, always hopes, always perseveres. Love never fails(I Corinthians: 13:4-8).So kids,be sure you acquire all the those thing before you say "I'm in love. For those who just had their orientation on love,it's hard to let go of someone .Especially those who are first timers who do not know what the next move is .Even me,it was hard to let go of him or should I call it give-up on him. Seeing the person with the one he loves makes your tears fall. When I had my first experience about love,the feeling was so ecstatic .I feel happy every time I saw him. I see stars when ever his around .Every song I hear,I give meaning to each line .And when I was in love,I even believed in the thing called "Cloud 9". But as what they say,everything has its beginning and end.

Our friendship ended when he knew that I got a crush on him. I really don't know what in the world happened to him. He avoided me. We're not hanging out with each other anymore. And worst of all,we didn't treat each other as friends .As if we just know each other. In spite of wall between us,I still fell for him even if I know that he's not there to catch me. I just realized,of all the people to be loved,why him?.Then with a flash of a lightning came to my mind the idea of giving up on him. Not just because I can't bare the pain anymore but also because I realized that If i keep on loving this man,in the end it's still me who will be hurt.

Erase,erase,erase. Reminiscing all those stuffs reminds me of my stupidity for doing such things .The only advice that I could give is that do not fall for someone who you are not sue if he'll catch except if wanna belong to us(Ulipon sa Gugmang Gi-****).Or if you are not ready for the consequences of love. There are many many guys in this world who treat girls as toys. Always be ready for the consequences of love. Just keep in mind that it's his loss not yours. Don't keep on thinking about him. Remember when you love,leave at least 50% for your self .And also love has all the consequences. Sacrifice is first on the list.


"Only love can make you cry and only love knows why. If you’re not ready to cry, if you’re not ready to take the risk, if you’re not ready to feel the pain, it means you’re not ready to fall in love.